Hello scooterspank.
I can understand your concern, and am pleased that you and your mum have been able to have fun together.
It is not always the case.
I feel that all of the fun my mother and I found is going to be sucked out by the org
Have you got some special old photos, memories of " the good times"?
Why not make an evening together, sharing these memories, doing something together as well ( restaurant/cinema?).
Maybe your mum will realise what she might be asked to give up.
Good luck, and feel free to rant a little here.